- Attracting Men
- Keeping Men Around
- Understanding Men
- Common Dating Problems
- Christian CarterChristian Carter at a Seminar Christian Carter is the author of the best-selling book Catch Him and Keep Him. Christian Carter, is a leading advisor to women on the subjects of dating, relationships, connection and love. An expert in psychology, communication and behavior, Christian Carter has developed foundational concepts that help women understand men, dating and relationships. Christian Carter’s theories of “Emotional Attraction”, “The Danger of a Connection”, and “The Relationship Balance” teach women how to create truly lasting attraction with a man and show them how to move effortlessly into a deeper, open, and more loving relationship all the while avoiding resistance, withdrawal or rejection. Christian Carter’s book, live seminars, and audio/video programs have helped thousands of women create amazing love-lives, overcome their fears and negative beliefs, and become more fulfilled in their relationships with men. (and all their relationships). Christian Carter Video Receive Christian Carter’s exclusive free dating advice email newsletter, at his website. After years of research into the dating habits of men, he decided to write a reference guide for women who are looking for understanding and power in her dating and relationships. Christian Carter eliminates the confusion that the majority of women feel when they continue in their dating lifestyle. Whether it’s a long-term relationship, or some fun, Christian Carter helps break down the simple truths that elude most women when it comes to the mind of the quality man. Christian Carter said this about his eBook “Catch Him and Keep Him”: “I’ve spent the better part of the last year making sure the entire book, from cover to cover, is the genuine article. The “real deal”. And it’s important to me that you get a ton of value if you invest the time and read it. You won’t be disappointed. My eBook “Catch Him & Keep Him” covers all the most important concepts, ideas, and strategies for women who want to meet and attract a great guy, and then set the foundation for building an amazing, lasting long-term relationship… And do it without coming up against all those frustrating and heart-wrenching problems and obstacles to true love that lots of women end up dealing with and sometime never escape from. So the books a kind of “cheat sheet” to the male psychology and inside the mind of a man. A step-by-step guide to attracting a man and communicating in a way that will lead him from feeling casual to committed in no-time flat. It represents several years of reading, observation, research, interviews and study all distilled into a truly usable reference manual to dating, romance and relationships with real men.” Receive Christian Carter’s exclusive free dating advice email newsletter, at his website.
- Catch Him And Keep HimCatch Him and Keep Him is guru Christian Carter‘s first book for women to improve their dating and relationships. Catch Him and Keep Him delves into the male mind and how it reacts when it’s involved with the dating world. It’s an inside look into how men think, from the perspective of a guy who’s been there – and done that. I find the masculinity of the book refreshing. This isn’t written by a counselor or a gay guy friend of yours: Christian Carter is very much in touch with his masculinity, and he doesn’t pull punches. He tells you what guys are really thinking and doing: the bare bald facts that most of us women don’t want to hear. In our hearts, I think many of us wish that men could be more like women. We wish that men could enjoy talking about their feelings more, could give up their addictions to gadgets and start getting hooked on having a family, kids, and even enjoy shopping with us more than just at Christmas time. According to Christian Carter, that sort of thinking has to stop. Men live in a different reality, and it is our job as women to understand where men are coming from without judgement. You can learn how to recognize a Player and the motives that drive them to play with hearts. Find yourself challenged to consider why you’re attracted to strong, dominant unavailable men and “players” … exactly the sort of men who will NOT make for a good relationship. One of Christian Carters’s central themes is the importance of understanding your emotional responses and acting on them appropriately. Christian challenges women to look at how flimsy their intuitive sense of a “connection” with a man really is: while the woman is sure he’s “The One” and planning their wedding invitations after the first date, he’s just thinking what a great gal she is and how great the sex will be. Christian injects a note of reality: “You’d be crazy to take the close relationship and love you want to find and gamble it away by betting on a guy whose greatest qualification is that he makes you feel attracted to him.” (p.33) Christian challenges you to be realistic about your expectations and assess your “emotional fitness.” Do you take responsibility for your life, or do you play the victim? Are you a “cool girl” or a “hysterical woman”? His list of Cool Girl Do’s and Dont’s hit home for many women. He’s right on the money about the kind of girl guys think is a great catch. The question remains: should you buy Christian Carter’s Catch Him and Keep Him book? I believe so. This book is a great start into understanding what really goes on inside a man’s mind and more importantly, how you can use that information to find a great guy! Click here to download Christian Carter’s book Catch Him And Keep Him.
Quickly “Qualify” & Attract Men On Dates
I wouldn’t bother reading this unless you’re:
A) Single
B) Tired or fed up with dating and men who don’t know what they want
C) Even the smallest bit uncertain about when, where, and how you’ll meet the “right guy” in your life
If any of this at all describes you, then I’d like to talk to you for a minute and share a few things that could be more valuable to you than anything you’ve learned about men and dating in the last several years.
First, let me ask you…
Do you ever feel frustrated that there just aren’t many good men out there?
At least not men who are looking for a real woman like you. And a real relationship.
Sure – there seems to be lots of men who would love a fling, or to spend their time with a younger woman who will tell them how terrific they are and inflate their ego for a while.
But I’m talking about men who are looking and capable of something better.
Men of SUBSTANCE.
Do you ever get the feeling that at this stage of your life, you might never find a real man like this you can really connect and share yourself with?
If so, then let me also ask you…
Do you ever meet other women who seem to have a kind of natural ability to meet and attract great men… and who seem to have “the pick of the litter” when it comes to guys who actually are the kind of men you could share something meaningful with?
If you know a woman like this, then you know that it’s almost like she’s luckier than other women… as she seems to effortlessly attract men to her without even trying.
If you don’t know a woman like this, then let me strongly suggest that you meet one, because there are women are out there like this… and you could learn a TON from them.
I’m talking about the kind of women who not only don’t have to worry about if they’re going to have a fun date on Friday night…
I’m talking about the kind of women who know how, when, and where to find great guys who are fun, charming, successful, attractive, etc.
And more importantly… I’m talking about the kind of women who know how to actually talk to, connect with, and EMOTIONALLY ENGAGE a great guy any time and any place she happens to run across him.
How many times have you seen or met a guy who seemed like a real “catch”, but you had no idea what to do or say in order to get his attention?
You didn’t even know where to start.
And since he didn’t “make a move” or do anything to start things off, nothing happened.
You might have even had times in your life where there was one special guy you kept seeing and being around… but you were NEVER able to break the ice and take things out of the “friend zone” and into an intimate connection.
Moments like these can be telling.
The thing is, if you’re single and you want to meet a great guy…
Either you know how to talk to a man and get his attention and interest if he doesn’t pursue you on his own… or you don’t.
And if you don’t, guess what?
It’s time you did 2 things:
1) Stop avoiding the fact that you DON’T know how to make things come together and happen with a real man once you find him
2) Start looking for ways to find and meet a great guy instead of feeling frustrated or upset that you don’t know any right now
And now it’s time for a some tough love-
Here’s what I believe is going on with you right now…
I believe that part of the time that you feel like your love life isn’t going anywhere, there really might not be any great guys around for you to meet and get to know.
But I also believe that, if you’re honest with yourself, then what’s more important than there not being lots of great men around is the fact that YOU don’t know how to identify, meet, date, and truly connect with men in order to create something that can be hard to come by in the first place-
Real and lasting LOVE.
Sure, you could wait around and hope that love finds you… and that a great guy is going to come along and everything is going to be easy and fall into place.
But if you’ve been waiting a while for this to happen (maybe even years and years) … you might not realize that for 99.8% of women out there, true love doesn’t just fall into their laps.
In other words, you might actually have to DO SOMETHING about your love life and your situation for yourself.
I know it sounds EASIER for things to come to you and work out the way you want them to…but I can promise you that life is a whole lot HARDER if you wait around and things never happen for you.
You know this somewhere inside.
So tell me something…
You’ve probably had the experience where you’ve met a guy and at first you felt kind of indifferent to him, or hardly interested.
But as you got to know him “accidentally”, or because of some specific circumstance such as work or friends in common, you got to know him and started to see was an amazing guy.
Not only that… but you started to see that he was really ATTRACTIVE and interesting.
But by then it was too late, and you were either stuck being his “friend”, or he was dating another woman.
To make a long story short, you missed out and you knew it.
The point is… if you don’t know how to recognize a great guy when you first meet him, then your odds of bringing a great guy like this into your life go down DRAMATICALLY.
First impressions are important.
For some men they’re EVERYTHING.
And if you don’t make the right first impression, it’s as though a door swings shuts in their mind that will never open again.
Nothing is going to make up for the reality that you’re likely to stay alone and unloved if you can’t get a man to take notice, open up to you, and become interested and attracted to you for the right reasons.
The good news is… a couple of my more successful women friends and I can help you.
But if, and only if, you’re willing to take the time to learn what really works.
(Of course, if you want to keep doing what you’ve been doing, and keep getting the same outcomes with men… go right ahead)
Speaking of which… what if I told you I knew a woman who had more of that “natural ability” to meet, attract, and connect with great guys than almost any other woman I had ever met?
And what if I told you that she has spent hundreds of hours helping and coaching women one on one and successfully teaching them exactly how to make their love lives come true – from scratch.
And what if I also told you that I had spent several hours with her getting all of her very best real-world tips and secrets that other women had paid thousands of dollars over days and weeks to hear and understand?
And that these were truly the things you needed to know if you wanted to literally jump-start your love life and identify, meet and attract great guys from today forward?
Would you be interested in knowing about it?
Would you be interested in learning how to feel 100% confident in your ability to talk to and connect with a great guy? And to know what he was thinking and what he said or did around you really meant?
And would being able to capture a man’s interest in just a few moments of conversation sound like something you’d want to know about?
And how about being able to do this anywhere you were, and at any time… with any man you were interested in?
Do I have your attention?
Good – because I want you to learn all of these amazing things that tons of women never learn in their lives… and so they go on living in a world of UNCERTAINTY and INSECURITY when it comes to men, dating, and relationships.
Don’t let that be you for another day.
I can help you jump-start your love life TODAY… and here’s how:
I’ve just interviewed this amazing woman I’ve been talking about – Lauren Frances.
And she just shared with me all of her very best secrets to what she calls “Dating, Mating, And Manhandling…”
In fact, let me tell you a few of the details about my Interview with Lauren and what you will learn by listening to it:
-How to know if a man is single and interested in you in the FIRST TEN SECONDS of talking to him
-How to flirt effectively without seeming aggresive, too obvious, or desperate
-The SINGLE MOST COMMON FEAR that keeps good men from approaching women
-What to say to a man that lets him know you’re interested but doesn’t sound canned or cheesy
-The best LOW-RISK way to ask a man on a date that doesn’t seem pushy or desperate
-What animal most closely resembles men in behavior, and how using and understanding this can instantly help you understand why men get DISTANT – and what to do about it
-When men fall in love… and when and why they don’t
-A super effective way to find out on a FIRST DATE whether or not the man is relationship and commitment-ready
-The biggest misperception a women can have about a man on a first date that could cause you to let a GOOD GUY slip by
-The BEST question to ask a man to learn if he has “issues” that would prevent him from wanting a meaningful, committed relationship with you – while building the level of interest and attraction he feels for you
-The little known secret to sparking incredible CHEMISTRY on the first date that lasts
-Specific moves you can do with your body that will make a man feel you UNDERSTAND him and have a connection with him
-A fun and flirtatious “game” you can play with a man on a date that he’ll love to play and will tell you almost all the IMPORTANT things you need to know about a his character
-Why a man will reveal his DARKEST SECRETS before he even gets to know you… and how to listen so you don’t miss out on this valuable information
-The actual QUALITIES in a woman that men fall in love with
-The key difference between the “hardened bachelor” and the “marrying type”, and how to spot one from the other immediately
-What it means when a man starts PULLING AWAY after he’s been “romancing” you for weeks
-The ULTIMATE heartache prevention question every woman should ask every man on the first date
-What sex REALLY means to a man, and how to use that knowledge to create the kind of LASTING and NATURAL attraction that will lead to a more fulfilling love life
-Specific TIPS and things to say to a man to allow a natural flow toward an EXCLUSIVE, long-term relationship.
-Why casually dating more than one man changes everything about how the man you might really like sees you… and when to become exclusive with that one man
-Why so many women SETTLE for a guy who’s never going to want what they want… and how to avoid this trap in the first place before you fall for a guy who isn’t ready
-The KEY SIGNS that tell you he’s serious about you… and what to do next when you see these signs
-A great technique to SLOWING things down without seeming like a “prude”, and actually intensifying his feelings for you as a result.
And I’ll talk to you again soon, and best of luck in Life and Love!
Your Friend,


